I'm an Asian guy and I've had white girlfriends and so has my friends. You know I think a lot of it is mostly in our heads. There's so many Asian guys who go around thinking that a white girl won't have him and they have these limiting beliefs even before they go over and just say hi. So guys just react in two ways. The first way is to just resign to that thinking and never approaching (and staying dateless) and the other reaction is to get angry about it and it shows when they talk to white women - like they have something to prove.
I mean, some of it is definitely also about how the media has portrayed Asian males as either Kung Fu masters with heavy Chinese accents or geek, computer nerd types and it's inexcusable really, but how you react to that is entirely up to you.
In the end, women are attracted to confident men and if you are comfortable with who you are, then it's going to show and you will be attractive to women. I worked hard on getting over my negative thinking. I also took the advice of some Asian guys who were very succesful with white women. I made friends with them and went out with them. I also bought a product called Asian Dating Superstars (http://asiandatingsuperstars.org), that was really good at motivating me. My current girlfriend is Chinese, but it's not because I couldn't date white women, she is just a great girl!
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